If they are tied up or start to panic, they can’t remove the ball from their mouth! Always stay close and check with your partner, so you can help if they don’t feel comfortable.ĭon’t use the ball gag if you are sick or have difficulties with breathing through the nose. Never leave the gagged partner alone, even if they wear a breathable ball. Otherwise, you might get a sore jaw straight away. If you are using it for the first time, start easy and don’t wear it for longer than 15 minutes. You can incorporate things like grunting in rhythm, blinking, squeezing Dom’s hand, shaking your head, or holding some other object. Safe words can’t be used when the partner is gagged, so make sure to agree on a signal before the play. The way how the gagged partner will express the safe word has to be clear and easily understandable. That’s why this should all be discussed prior to the play. Once you put the gag on, it’s impossible to speak, to express your consent or disapproval. Break down the play so both sides are aware of what is going to happen during it and agree to it. Talk about consent, your desires, and expectations. Talk about it with your partner and choose the right model for you, especially if you are a beginner. Like with any other toy, you should talk with your partner about introducing a ball gag into your relationship. They’re also humiliating and objectifying – in a totally sexy way. Gags put the wearer into a submissive position, often a helpless position. While I’m sure there are much more practical situations in which folks wear ball gags, I think the main point of them is purely psychological. When he was wearing a ball gag with nipple clamps, I occasionally pulled his hair back, which made those strings pull nipple clamps up (along with his nipples) and I’d whisper to him something along the lines of ”this is what will happen if you don’t behave.”.He spanked me occasionally with a riding crop and made me wiggle that tail. Once when we were pet playing, I had a gag on and he inserted a butt plug with a tail and lead me around the house.Since I’m drooling, he takes the saliva and smears it around my nipple or uses it as a lube for penetration.This is a (sexy) way humiliating and objectifying since I feel like I’m an object he uses for pleasure. Since I’m gagged I can’t speak, I only mumble and drool even more. He sometimes pulls my hair, spanks my ass, and fingers me while asking me questions like ”who’s my little slut?” or ”whose body is this to use?” and makes me try to speak.He sometimes fucks my face while I’m wearing an O-gag.He sometimes fucks me, takes off the gag and face fucks my mouth while they’re full of drool.During a play where he was submissive partner, he wore a ball gag with a dildo and I fucked myself with his head.Often, when we ended, the gag had bite marks. I’m not able to fully yell/scream and that eventually helped me relax during those plays. He sometimes gags me during our spanking or impact play sessions.Luka often puts the ball gag on me to further reinforce the Dominant/submissive dynamic during a play. Here is how we have used ball gags so far. Image from Geeky Sex Toys Using a ball gag A size bigger than necessary can also be used as a part of the play, to purposely cause more stretch in a submissive. Folks with bigger bodies than petite will probably need medium and/or bigger ones. Through research, we found out that if you’re a petite person, it’s most likely you’ll only need ones labeled as small. If the ball gag is too small it won’t serve the purpose, if it’s too big, it will hurt your jaw after some time. Often, they are sold in several different sizes to the wearer gradually gets used to the feeling of having something like that in their mouth. These gags are, in a way, more intense and will be easier to handle once you get a feeling of how they are. Later, you can easily switch to solid ball gags. If you’re just starting out, we recommend you buy a breathable ball gag so you or your partner get used to wearing them. Breathable models have holes to help with breathing, while the non-breathable balls are solid. Beginners can choose between breathable and non-breathable balls. Which type of ball gags should you choose?īall gags, like other sex toys, offer a huge variety of designs and models.
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